In the words of charlie Mackesy “what is the greatest thing you have learnt ? That I am enough “I started seeing Lulu because I was struggling to deal with the end of my marriage and I had recently been reminded of my very difficult childhood. I have been throughout my life nervy, stressed and deeply sad . Lulu very gently got me to see that I needed to protect myself by setting up boundaries and without me even noticing, she stripped my life back and rebuilt my confidence, making me see that the failure in my upbringing and my failed marriage were not my fault but connected to my whole sense of how worthless I felt I was. Instead of continually seeking praise and the wrong type of attention, I realised that I was carrying a huge burden that was tainting the very essence of me. Unlike many counsellors , she thought very deeply in between sessions so could make really poignant observations . Her unending patience and calm aura makes her room feel like you are in the womb. She also practices Reiki and will read your angel cards. I have, since I met her, without realising it , really started to like myself and made some self preservation life changes and even applied and been accepted to study law at university. I found myself at the start of the year putting away the second set of unused pillows on my bed. At 44 to suddenly learn and accept that you are enough is such a gift."
"Over the last couple of years we've been visiting Lulu as a couple and as individuals too. At times our children have been to see her for some gentle guidance. All very helpful."
"My partner and I found Lulu's calm, kind, non judgemental attitude incredibly helpful. She listened and came up with helpful, useful, easy to follow ways to help us. We met both as a couple and then as a family, both times felt comfortable and easy. Her ability to make a difference in a very short space of time, was incredible. She made me remember that indulging my son is not the same as loving him! We are all sleeping better, playing better and generally happier, thank you so much." Charlotte and Family.
"The process of growing from a teenager to a man is fraught for so many as I have discovered as a mother. Many young people feel lost as they grow into adulthood and working out who you are and what you want to do with your life is often fraught. Lulu spent many hours with my son supporting him to grow and take responsibility in a very connecting, non judgmental way that has helped him on his journey. He often speaks of her as a very significant person in his life and got so much from seeing her. The support she has given me to parent him has also been invaluable" Mother and son.
I contacted Lulu because my nine year old daughter had nocturnal fears and was feeling anxious. Lulu helped her a lot by giving her techniques to analyse her feelings and how to cope with difficult emotions and thoughts. My daughter really enjoys her sessions with Lulu and looks forward to seeing her. I highly recommend her." Mother and daughter.
"Try seeing Lulu Luckock - she is a teacher and wonderful at helping children and parents a like! She is calm, patient, kind and full of brilliant ideas. She will be able to help you! I know she's helped many local families and it won't feel like therapy or an issue."It will just be advice and guidance- posted on Nappy Valley Net
"It took some encouragement to get us all to Lulu's door but we didn't look back, it has been really helpful to have a safe space to share the way we feel and to find ways together to be a happier family again." Hannah and Husband
"The session was really, really helpful....looking forward to the next meeting." John and family.